«Wait, Is it a Date?» Podcast Episode 105: greatest Intercourse Actually ever | Autostraddle

Our very own event topic recently is better Sex Ever so the audience is speaing frankly about… best intercourse we have now ever had! We’re joined by Autostraddle author, poet, and reporter Dani Janae once we go into some passionate anecdotes with an in-depth conversation by what tends to make great sex suitable. So we fork out a lot period back at my sexual hang ups that I could or might not have really accomplished lots of manage come july 1st!

Appear when it comes to lesbian movie-themed online game, stay for your coming.

SHOW RECORDS

+
The 200 Best Lesbian+ Videos list
that Christina pulled the online game from.

+ when you haven’t study Dani’s
Anatomy of a Mango
collection you probably must.

+
This is basically the essay
We typed concerning the person We mention regarding occurrence. It’s merely been 2 yrs but a whole lot changed!

+ The summer has gone by and we still stan Olivia Rodrigo. Enjoy the
«intense» music video clip
.

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Dani:

The pet and puppy had been when you look at the area there had been cat-and-dog hair every-where. And, I became seriously having an allergic reaction although we happened to be having sex. But the orgasm was actually like cook’s kiss. It was the most wonderful, best experience physically.

Christina:

We question when it’s something concerning hives that actually added just a little

je ne sais quoi

to that orgasmic experience.

Theme song performs

Drew:

Welcome to

Wait, Is This a romantic date?

Christina:


Wait, Is This a Date?

is actually an Autostraddle podcast about, you thought it, matchmaking.

Drew:

Yay! I love dating. I’m Drew Gregory. I’m an author for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and merely common trans gay person round the internet and… I became browsing say globe, but it’s truly a lot more like Los Angeles and New York.

Christina:

I like this globe-trotting gay personality you are accepting below in 2021.

Drew:

I would like that. Yeah, it really is for the future.

Christina:

Yeah. I’m your own some other host, Christina Tucker, additionally an author for Autostraddle, deranged deafening homosexual on the net. Only sorts of out right here, writing, becoming homosexual, performing whatever you can every moment to try to work through this life we’re residing.

Drew:

You’re actually carrying it out. You are really functioning throughout that life.

Christina:

Honestly, its all i could do. That’s all i’ve, oahu is the sole option.

Drew:

I truly respect the attempt.

Christina:

The make an effort to stay?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Yeah. Really, actually daring of me to actually try it. You’re not completely wrong, you aren’t completely wrong. Might you be thinking about playing a tiny bit online game today, Drew?

Drew:

Oh my personal Jesus, I’m thus excited. Cannot wait to see everything have actually for my situation.

Christina:

I am very grateful you said that because you absolutely need say yes, for the reason that it’s element of this offer we’ve created here. So you might know about the point that on autostraddle.com, the website, there is a list of 200 lesbian flicks.

Drew:

I realize of it. I might wrote it.

Christina:

You’ve probably. What I have done is take a selection of 10 of those flicks. I have held these to the best 50. I will provide land key words as determined by consumers on IMDb and you are probably need you know what movie really.

Drew:

Okay. I just want the audience, anywhere you are, to understand that I am not browsing pull up the list. In my opinion that is correct, am We making the assumption that’s correct in how I must be respecting this game?

Christina:

I do believe that is very respectful and I also think that’s fair. I also style of depend on this particular is going be something which pops into the mind quite possible for you, I didn’t go as well left.

Drew:

We have a terrible mind, but yes, i’ll make an effort to set people up for reduced objectives.

Christina:

Fair sufficient.

Drew:

So if i really do effectively, its like particular strike all of them away, and if Really don’t do well, they will be like, «Well, she pointed out…» Anyways, carry on. Let us start this.

Christina:

Why don’t we begin. I will begin with pretty basic types and I will get more certain once we go, because many of them are practically just what the movie is during two words. Therefore weare going to try to focus on a wider experience here.

Drew:

I favor it.

Christina:

Our first film: medicines will be the basic story word. Manhattan, New York City is the next. Hate crime could be the next.

Drew:

Okay.

It Really Is All-around Myself.

Christina:

Yes, it’s! See, I understood you’ll be capable of this.

Drew:

Great.

Christina:

We definitely realized you would certainly be able to do this.

Drew:

Additionally, I just have to permit individuals understand that that’s probably the most underrated lesbian films, while really need to view it. And Leisha Hailey because motion picture was my phone history for a couple of years. Therefore merely a great little reality there for all people.

Christina:

We like that. All right, flick number two. «Unknown father,» body organ donor, cemetery, death of boy. Oh, she actually is considering.

Drew:

I’m like I should surely have this considering — delay, not known father, loss of daughter, body organ donor. Oh,

Everything About My Mother.

Christina:

Truth be told there it really is, see.

Drew:

A differnt one of my favorites.

Christina:

It is very exciting to see the things that folks determine tend to be a story key phrase that they must take because of these movies. I’m additionally perhaps not reading any of the people which happen to be simply lesbian for the reason that it seems similar to a gimme.

Drew:

Which is the way I make a lot of the number because if you appear up lesbian motion pictures, everything you discovered had been the existing Autostraddle list or some databases which are not very extensive, so I would in fact browse through lists with the key words of lesbian, lesbian kissing, these items like women kissing, these things, in order to find movies in which they truly are perhaps not regarded as a lesbian movie since they are a bit more fascinating, or a little bit less immediate, that is certainly how I discovered a few of the films which are today from the list, very full circle.

Christina:

Listen, IMDb key words arriving convenient for all always. This package, individuals moved crazy on this subject one. So only planning read some haphazard words to you personally. Hey, whistling, woman, black colored activities bra, lake, stomping out a cigarette, face to face accident.

Drew:

At work collision? Oh, I thought I Experienced it after which, well—

Christina:

Cold, in parentheses, the temperature.

Drew:

Due to the fact in the beginning I became planning say

Foxfire,

but then the at work collision switched me upwards. At work crash.

Christina:

Do you need more?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Vehicle crashes through a fence.

Drew:

Is-it

Miseducation of Cameron Post?

Christina:

It is not.

Drew:

Because at work crash was a very awful way of describing any particular one for the gay because you’re wanting to become maybe not gayness, tries to mutilate themselves or really does mutilate on their own. That’d be rather intense, but i did not know using IMDb thinkers. Okay, wait, this is exactly fooling myself upwards.

Christina:

Do you need some more from me?

Drew:

Vehicle through a fence. I am sure its something I’m simply not… Yeah, continue.

Christina:

Mention of a college mortgage. They’re thus peanuts.

Drew:

Hold off, perhaps you have seen this movie?

Christina:

I have come across this flick.

Drew:

Could it possibly be crazy that I am not getting it?

Christina:

It is somewhat wild. I’m able to provide a year, if you would like a-year.

Drew:

Should you provide myself a year, We’ll certainly get it.

Christina:

Okay. 2016 can be your season.

Drew:

2016. Okay, let me know what it is.

Christina:

Simple fact is that movie,

Certain Girls,

2016.

Drew:

Oh! Yeah.

Christina:

I absolutely believed vehicle crashes through a wall would provide, but In addition just love these people merely pulling out nouns and merely getting like, «male.» Is how you feel?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Okay.

Drew:

That is a fantastic movie. I need to see that once more.

Christina:

Its. It’s a great motion picture.

Drew:

Yeah, it really is a really fantastic movie.

Christina:

All right, our next film. Kissing while having gender.

Drew:

Best style of both, perhaps, somehow.

Christina:

Seduction, dude farm.

Drew:

Will it be

Desert Hearts?

Christina:

Yeah. So I was like, «Okay, you have got for that after that one.» Another one I became likely to provide ended up being — «nipples» ended up being the really conspicuously showcased. And that I was like, «Sure, that’s section of that film.»

Drew:

Jesus,

Desert Hearts.

You probably know how there’s each one of these frustrating folks around attempting to end up being Shane. Sorry, I mean, if you’re trying to end up being Shane, we recognize you. But me personally, my personal irritating thing is I’m wanting to be Cay. Cay where flick is much like this is certainly whom In my opinion of while the type of lesbian that i do want to end up being.

Christina:

Yeah, that is correct, can confirm. Okay, are we prepared for our subsequent one?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Year—

Drew:

Wait, no, i’ve yet another thing to express about

Desert Hearts.

Christina:

Sure.

Drew:

Following finally time we re-watched it across summer, it kind of sent me personally into a small spiral, and I texted this earlier semi-closeted individual that I experienced sort of started tentatively willing to big date or date whatever, and who had vanished for four weeks, and I had given up on because I do not ask visitors to date me. But i simply ended up being want, «Okay.» I saw

Desert Hearts

and that I was like, «i assume perhaps often people have their unique internalized whatever.» And I also texted their and that I said, «If we never satisfy, In my opinion you’re regret it.» Therefore we performed meet, so that’s what

Desert Hearts

is capable of doing to you.

Christina:

Wow, that’s a very effective recommendation.

Drew:

We most likely must not have fulfilled. I probably will need to have merely let it end up being. But anyways, moving forward, then film.

Christina:

Our very own then film, metaphysics, scene during opening credits — what which means, it really is for you to decide — high-school football, Chicago, Illinois.

Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.

Christina:

There you choose to go.

Drew:

That’s an excellent film. I love that I hold getting surprised by this listing that I experienced an extremely powerful hand in ranking. It isn’t my positioning, but used to do have a large say in standing and I also love it.

Christina:

Yeah. I just want to be clear for you and the listeners — once more, I chose through the top 50, thus they are great ones. Regarding the great people, these are great types. I Am Aware Drew’s going to continuously state this might be outstanding motion picture after each and every one, but—

Drew:

They truly are good movies, you guys should watch them.

Christina:

All right. Short dress with heels.

Drew:

Think it’s great.

Christina:

Cock blocked, mini dress with footwear.

Drew:

I am talking about, is-it

Blockers?

Christina:

It’s not. That might be too effortless, i believe, for

Blockers.

Drew:

I Really Don’t recall any miniskirts, but—

Christina:

Feminine back nudity.

Drew:

Okay. Wait an additional. Okay, what an extra. Okay, dick blocked, mini top, feminine backside nudity.

Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). Split dance.

Drew:

Would it be

Bound?

Christina:

It isn’t.

Drew:

No, I would love some slack moving world.

Christina:

I favor some slack dancing world in

Bound.

Drew:

A rest dancing world.

Christina:

I’m going to present: English girl overseas.

Drew:

English lady abroad? This might be a different one in which personally i think we positively should get it.

Christina:

I’m going to need certainly to provide you with a pretty obvious one at some point, to make sure that’s going to help.

Drew:

Okay, offer me an obvious one.

Christina:

Undercover broker.

Drew:

Is it

D.E.B.S?

Christina:

It is really not

D.E.B.S.

It is right beside

D.E.B.S.,

type of movie a good idea. Discover someone else, intrigue.

Drew:

Okay, hold off, there is not that many genre flicks.

Christina:

There aren’t, that’s true.

Drew:

Undercover agent. Really, perhaps they can be using the phrase, can it be

The Handmaiden?

Christina:

It isn’t.

Drew:

Okay, I didn’t think so. Undercover agent.

Christina:

Do you want your own season?

Drew:

I thought that… Positive.

Christina:

Your own year is 2017.

Drew:

Undercover representative.

Christina:

I’m thus sorry. You’re feel thus foolish as I state the name within this one.

Drew:

Oh no.

Christina:

I’m really sorry about this, but that’s type simply the method the cookie crumbles.

Drew:

Oh, it really is

Carol.

Christina:

No, it is not

Carol.

Drew:

No, it says 2015.

Christina:

Yes, I know that. It isn’t really

Carol.

Drew:

But there is an undercover — the man, this is where I happened to be thinking. Okay, what is it? How does it generate myself feel dumb?

Christina:

It Really Is

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.

Drew:

Oh, that is in the top 50?

Christina:

Its. I’m sure.

Drew:

Oh, okay.

Christina:

Fine. We have four more, you ready?

Drew:

I really don’t think that dumb for the reason that it one I… I mean, In my opinion

Atomic Blonde

is actually fun, but I don’t think its great. That will not be in my own personal top 50. I do want society to know that i am aware that

Carol

arrived on the scene in 2015. My head hurt. I simply desire the entire world to understand that. Anyways, continue.

Christina:

The whole world now knows that, the record has been shown. All righty: restaurant, sense of scent, novelist, regard to a hamburger, reference to Larry King, according to memoir, alcoholic, theft, girl wears glasses, residing by yourself, ruining proof.

Drew:

The mention of the Larry King is truly—

Christina:

It is a very weird one.

Drew:

Reference to Larry King, destroying research.

Christina:

Cat.

Drew:

Oh, can it be

Are You Able To Ever Forgive Me?

Christina:

It’s.

Drew:

I needed to redeem myself. I was really in a slump here.

Christina:

You nailed it. I think you’ve got truth be told there, In my opinion you absolutely got there. All right, three more, all of our top three. I believe these ones are simple for you because i understand you.

Drew:

Great, fine, really…

Christina:

I’m sure, but i am claiming, isn’t it time?

Drew:

Okay, yeah.

Christina:

Psychological state, medication overdose.

Drew:

Can it be

Foxfire?

Christina:

No. Photographer.

Drew:

Oh,

Larger.

Christina:

There we go. Tattoo, girl gang.

Drew:

Is this

Foxfire?

Christina:

Yeah.

Drew:

Oh, i understand

Foxfire.

Christina:

I became like, «Oh, she is going to just keep speculating

Foxfire

until i simply give her

Foxfire.»

Drew:

The key is that I love

Foxfire

and I also hold attempting to think about

Foxfire.

Christina:

I mean, whomst in our midst?

Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.

Christina:

Okay. That One, one among these is—

Drew:

This is actually the last one?

Christina:

This is the final one. This really is the final one. Church, assertion, family members relationships.

Drew:

Is it

Miseducation of Cameron Post?

Christina:

It isn’t.

Drew:

Could it possibly be

But I Am a Cheerleader?

Christina:

Really, yes.

Drew:

Indeed. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Post.

Christina:

Jokes on jokes. In order for was the online game i am calling, How Well really does Drew Know Lesbian Movies???

Drew:

Everyone loves how great the audience is picking out labels for our games.

Christina:

Yeah, that it is mortifying that we even wrote that when you look at the concept of a Google Doc, the thing that was we thinking? It doesn’t actually look good during my Bing Docs.

Drew:

I experienced a very good time and that I’m actually happy that I got to inform all listeners about all the motion pictures that they should view. And now we’ll place the record during the show notes.

Christina:

Completely.

Drew:

I’d point out that the list is currently at a place where i do believe you’d get one thing out of viewing all 200 movies. The most important form of the list, there seemed to be some stuff on the website that I found myself not as pleased with. There continues to be items that i do believe that I do not actually but I think that as one, there’s a certain quality-control next most recent upgrade that personally i think extremely pleased with and I also believe they can be all well worth witnessing.

Christina:


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